LET US LIVE TOO!

You have scars.

You are always negative.
You are not perfect for me.
I deserve better than you.
What you doing whole day, you are doing nothing productive?
I have more important things to do. I don’t have time to listen to your gossips all the time.
Why you always want me to express my love to you? I don’t have time for these things.
I am adjusting too much for you. Stop expecting more from me.
You are weak. Be like a man who can face anything.

Her Husband complained.

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When you will become mature and responsible?
You don’t even know how to talk with your husband.
It’s your duty to provide us everything instantly, no matter what you are busy in.
You have to ask us before going outside, even for a meeting with friends.
You can’t forget to bring medicines when I instructed you this in the morning. If you are busy with your job, that doesn’t mean you will be irresponsible for these things. It’s Unforgivable mistake.

Her In-Laws argued.

Bolte the In-laws “Hume bahu nahin beti chahiye!”.

Kisse complaint krti vo?
Kehte hai:

"Fasalein jo kaati jaayein
Ugti nahi hain
Betiyan jo byahi jaaye
Mudti nahi hain…"

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The Father said, “I will come for Darshan to you maa If you bless me with Baby girl”.
The Time has finally arrived when mother was admitted in hospital.
Father was praying along with his parents because there was no daughter in their family.
Mother was yelling out of pain.
They heard a voice of a child crying from inside.
Doctor came outside “Congratulations. It’s baby boy”.
The Father closed his eyes for a second out of sadness and faked a smile.
The days passed by, mother were not ready to undergo the pain again.
They decided to adopt one Baby girl from orphanage home.
She was 1.5 years old (Infant).

Every member of the family was on cloud 9 as they are going to get Laxmi in their house. (Daughters are often considered as Laxmi in Indian families)
A Grand celebration was organized!
It was time to give a name to their daughter.
Everyone was so excited and proposing the name of the daughter.
The Father exclaimed “what about Khushboo?”
(As she has brought a light of Happiness at home)
Mother chuckled.

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After that, the  whole house filled with bundle of happiness.

As it is said:

Yeh Betiyan to Babul ki raniyan hain…..

Yeh Betiyan to Babul ki raniyan hain…..
mithi mithi pyaari yeh kahaniyan hain!
yeh shishe diyan gudiya rab jaane ki yeh kudiyaan!
kina janmiyan kina le jaaniyan hain!
Yeh Betiyan to babul ki raniyan hain…..
mithi mithi pyaari yeh kahaniyan hain!

Khushboo was more close to his father.

From her gossips counter to her morning alarm!

From I am done with life in Xth standard to I cant do maths yaar!
From Chand ko dekhke philosophy jadhna to suno I think I love Fawad Khan!
Who has seen it all-
She used to tell him everything:
And vo uski sari batein bahut dhyan se sunte the.
Uske nakhre se lekar uske mood swings-
Uski confusion se lekar uske bold decisions-
Uski innocence se lekar uska zidhipan’
Sab kuch dekha tha unhone-
Bolte the “Uff…tu aur tere nakhre”.

Kyunki unki beti ko apne papa se sab kuch share karna pasand tha.

Uske superstar papa!
The best in the world!
Logo ke liye desert hota hoga unke liye Ice cream was the best invention in the world by human beings!
Hum saath saath hai and Hum apke hai kon ka vo bidhai wala part dekhkar un dono ki ankhein num ho jati,
Laadli jo thi vo gar ki!

She cleared HSC with good grades.
She was good in academics and chose to opt for Chartered accountant as a career.
Those 5 years of life were,
Exams, self-study, classes and Internship.
Still, no matter how much trivial matter was she used to share it with his father.
It was a time when final results were going to be declared.

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That CA tag which she wanted to contribute as a prefix to her name was finally gifted.
It was CA khushboo!
She joined job in a corporate world and started planning for her further plans.
She wanted to go for further studies rather than choosing marriage as an option to settle.
But who allow the girls to do fulfill their dreams these days?
Who believe in feminism these days?
Who believe in girl being Independent and working for their parents?
TheTime has arrived also to get her marry because of so called society tradition.
And uske bad bus hona kya tha,
Rishte ane chalu ho gaye beti k liye and all got busy in preparation of her wedding.

What is required for good groom these days?

Businessman earning well enough with small families.

And then she was induced to keep aside her dreams for the time being and devote her precious time to marry.

Why?

Because of society!
Because girls should marry at the right age!
Because Girls beauty will fade away with time!
Because it will be difficult to find a suitable boy after a certain age!
Because she is Manglik and should get married during specified tenure!

That’s it!!

Who cares for that dream which she has dreamed of?
Who cares for her Happiness?
Who cares for her choice?
Who cares whether she is ready for it or not?

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At the end, she got married, keeping aside her dreams.

For Whom?

Because her parents are in a pressure of abundance of questions of society.

Then society thinks,
She is happy in her new life as she got her prince.
Why to Invest more in education and earning money when at the end,girls have to perform household chores only?

Dear society,

We too have dreams like boys.
We too want to Settle Independently and make our parents proud.
We too have opinions about changing the world  and want you to consider them.
We too have a passion to work with.
Stop Interfering in our life!
Support girls to support you in future!
We too want to get marry but at the right time and with our Dream man.

Yours truly-

Once An Independent girl!