Little enforcement is not bad always.:)

Sometimes we perceive our Parents wrong. Don’t we??

Sometimes we become so stubborn that we don't even want to understand what's good for us.

I too faced such a situation.... :)

           Once a dozen of years ago I had been scolded by a school teacher. I was in 3rd standard. I used to be an average one in studies. One of my friends was too mischievous. During the lecture she used to be hilarious. On that day too she was behaving childish. Being got distracted, I tried to shut her mouth but couldn't. While in conversation with her, Teacher got disturbed and started shouting at me. She scolded me without knowing the fact. Without giving me a chance of being heard, she ordered me to go on Last bench and fixed my seat there, I was numb. It was the first time in my life that I feel being insulted. All the classmates were laughing at me. And the feeling of not being able to explain her made the things worse. Being the youngest in my family, I was quite a stubborn child. The very next day I decided not to go school. It was the   3^rd day on the trot, when I refrained to my mom about   going to school, but mom was compelling me to go.  She then asked me why I am refusing from going to school?  I without uttering a word walked away in silence. Taking the hold of the matter , she decided to investigate the matter, when she forced me ,I mentioned that I was not feeling well .my mind being not in the Proper state, started making a lot of thoughts like I won’t attend my school anymore.  I didn’t know what I will do next but one thing was for sure I won’t go to school. Mom used to ask and I considering myself Smart tried to fool her, but was not the case!  In this steamy situation as it happened, my friends came to meet me, for getting acquainted with the situation; I tried to fool them as well. After some days, a letter from school was delivered to my home .Stating that Chanda Wadhwa has been not coming to school from the last few days.

 Parents are required to meet with the Class teacher along with a student.”

Now the matter became too serious.  But I had firmly decided to quit my studies & look for a different career. But god has planned a different turn in my life .The very next day; one of my cousins came at my home. When he became aware of the matter from my family, he tried to convince me. I narrated the whole incident to him .At first instance he laughed, but then understanding my state of mind, he said these things are part and parcel of life, you have to learn to live with these things .You will only improve and become a strong person by facing the thing rather than hiding .He then told my mom to get me ready me for school. I started being angry but it didn’t work at that time. I tried to convince my mom, but she didn’t. I cried, screamed a lot but no one was there to hear me . I was like how can they take decision of my life? I was not at all interested to rejoin school. The fear of facing classmates again and how do I respond to my teacher made me sad.

Firstly I tried to take the support of the wall in my room. My cousin was behaving like Don. He pushed me I was now taking support of the washbasin.I was trying to anyhow stop them and searching for ideas. I was holding the washbasin firmly resisting the pressure. The tug of war and the clashes of the determination of me and my cousin lead into the basin brake into pieces.

And I lose the battle, the battle of rejoining school. It took some time to be normal, but later on things became Alright.

3 years later

30^th April 2006- Result day.

Rank 1^st goes to Chanda Wadhwa.

A grenade applaud was given to me and it made me feel like I was in 9^th cloud.

When my parents came to know about my results they were proud of me.

It was one of my best memories I am carrying in my life. These memories still rejuvenate me every day. I will love to cherish these memories lifelong.  Some things some incidents we find Cruel or Evil at moments but later they become the best things ever happened to us. J J